Do You See Yourself As a Victim or a Survivor, or As a Powerful Creator?


By Lady Tabitha Daniëlle
Thursday, March 23, 2023 - 10:00 am

Do you see yourself as a victim?Welcome, welcome, dear human, on this beautiful new day indeed. We are so happy to be with you again, and we would like to speak about you today, whether you feel or act as if you’re a victim or a powerful creator.

We see many people that feel like they are a victim of circumstance. When people speak about their past experiences, they often blame others, or situations, for the things they’ve experienced.

Are you a victim or a survivor?

People tend to see themselves as victims, and if they don’t want to see themselves as victims, they call themselves ‘survivors’.

To be honest with you, both terms are untrue. Because when you call yourself a victim, you actually say that you had nothing to do with it, that it happened outside of your will, outside of your control.

When you say that you’re a survivor of anything, you are also saying that something happened to you, without you being in control, but that you decided not to see yourself as a victim.

We hear people literally say it over and over again: “I am not a victim, I am a survivor”.

Your mind and ‘no’

You’ve most likely heard before what we’re about to share with you now: your mind doesn’t understand or know the words ‘no’ or ’not’.

When you think of not being something, the image your mind is picturing is that of which you say you are not.

When you say ‘I am not a thief’, the image that is popping up in your mind is the image of how you see a thief. Or even worse, seeing yourself being a thief.

Even though you didn’t mean that with what you said.

When you say I am not hungry, the image your brain will see, or the assignment you’re giving your brain, is that of feeling hungry.

pink elephantImmediately your subconscious attention goes to your stomach, and you’re checking consciously how your stomach feels.

The feeling of being hungry is what your brain is looking for, and most likely you will start to feel hungry because you said you are not hungry.

A common example people use is ‘try not to think of a pink elephant”. What do you picture in your mind? Right, a pink elephant.

Is there really a difference between ‘victim’ and ‘survivor’?

So, when you say ‘I am not a victim, I am a survivor’, what you do is picturing yourself as a victim, but labeling it differently, because you don’t want to identify as a victim.

You want to feel stronger than a powerless victim. But all you actually do is sending out a message that you were a victim and decided to change the label for it!

And even the label ‘survivor’ has the meaning of first going through something that was out of your control, that you had no influence on, no responsibility for.

That is just a different word for being a victim!

We are here to tell you that you are neither one of them. You are never a victim, and no, you are never a survivor. Nothing has been done to you, everything has happened for you.

Who is responsible?

And the only one in charge of what happened for you, was you, through your Soul, your Higher Self. Giving you, and orchestrating for you, the things that you wanted to experience even before you were born into this physical life.

Stop saying that you are a victim, stop saying that you are a survivor, no matter the issue or topic. You are in reality the creator of it.

accept your responsibility as the powerful creator you areTake responsibility, accept that this world you’ve created is a game, an illusion, and know, really know, that you have control over everything that happens in your world.

Again, you are never a victim. By saying that, or saying that you are a survivor, you put your power outside of you, you give it away.

Stop doing that, take your power back and take back the control over your life, your thoughts, your actions, your emotions, and start living the life that you came here to live, as a powerful master being, as the creator of your own reality.

You have nothing to fear

And stop being afraid of your own power. You got this! It’s time to take back your control, your power, your responsibility. When you have the responsibility over your life, nothing that apparently comes from ‘outside’ of you, could ever harm or hurt you.

We love you so much, dear human, and we want you to get this. Read our messages about these topics again and again, and let them enter your heart.

Come back to the knowing of who you truly, really are.

We are The Wisdom, and with that we are complete for today.

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