How to Be in Control, Without Controlling It All


By Lady Tabitha Daniëlle
Thursday, June 9, 2022 - 10:00 am

Welcome, welcome, dear human, on this beautiful day. We are pleased to speak with you again, and we hope you’re doing well. This time we will talk about control.

What we want you to understand

We understand how you sometimes get frustrated, with us telling the same sort of things over and over again, but we want you to understand the things we are saying. And sometimes you have to hear things over, and over, and over again, before it hits home.

Sometimes your mind keeps playing tricks with you, it wants to believe the stories, the illusions of lack and limitation, and it just doesn’t want to give in and surrender to the knowing of the Truth of who you really are.

And as you know, we have no judgment about that, we love you anyway, no matter what you believe, think or do. We just know, that your life would be so much easier for yourself if you would start to accept the reality that is real, instead of your reality that is an illusion.

You want to control, but you can’t control it all

Wcontrole know for a fact, that there is a way of life possible for you, that is so much happier, so much easier, without all the struggles and strive, without having to push and effort to get things done, without wanting to control everything, because all that working and efforting, only results in needing to control things that you can’t control!

You in your human form, are not able to control other people, for instance. You can try to, and you have tried, through the course of your life, but you can’t control anyone.

The only thing you can control, is you, your thoughts and your actions. That’s as far as it goes when it comes to your control.

Now, wouldn’t it be worth to let go of all that need to control, and to just let the energy flow and be, who you are? Without having to worry, to work hard, and constantly wait to see if anything happens?

Become aware of your power

You have given your power away, without even realizing it. You have given your power to other people, and you keep thinking that other people can control you. And as a counter reaction you want to be the one in control, so that you can’t be controlled by others.

Well, that just doesn’t work. You are a sovereign being, and you are in total control of you and your reality. Nobody else is. Only you. And you create that reality with your thoughts and emotions, as we’ve told you many, many times before.

When we say that you have the power to create your own reality, that means that you are in control of your thoughts, of your beliefs, and when you start working on those, to become aware of what you think and how you respond to those thoughts, then, and only then, you will start to see a glimpse of how your reality comes about.

It’s up to you how your life unfolds

But you have a free will, so it’s your choice if you want to do something about it or not. Like we said, there is no judgment on our side ever, we love you, no matter what, unconditionally.

clean slateIt’s totally up to you, and you can choose for a better life, without all the things that you’ve pulled into your world in the past. You can start with a clean slate, and the things you’re dealing with right now, will slowly fade away, just by how you look at things and by changing your perspective.

You have the power, you are more than your human, and you are able to change everything you wish into something better. Just know that you only have control over your own thoughts and behavior, not over someone else’s!

You are the change

We know you may have second thoughts about that, and we understand that, just try to understand the things we say, and look inside of you, to see how you think, what are the things you focus on and how do you perceive your reality.

You are the change you seek, you are the one capable of bringing about the change you so desperately want.

When you read our messages, that we’ve given for months now, and integrate the things we’ve told you into your life, you will see changes, and your world, as well as your life, will become better, happier, more harmonious.

Become aware

We wish that for you, and we know that you can achieve that. Why not give it a try? Become aware of your thoughts, and when they slide off into the negative side of things, tell them to stop. You are in control of what you think!

We will leave you with that message. We love you so much, and we look forward to our next moment of contact with you.

We are The Wisdom of All that Is, and with that, we are complete.

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