Competition vs. Self-Worth: Why You Don’t Need to Prove Yourself


By Lady Tabitha Daniëlle
Tuesday, March 14, 2023 - 10:00 am

Do you always want to win?Welcome, welcome, dear human, we are so pleased to be with you again today, and we’d like to have a word with you about competition.

We have seen you and many others being very competitive in many ways. You tend to want to win, right? And we understand that.

There is a lot going on in your life that you can use to compare yourself with others, feeling better, or worse, than others.

And you’re always looking for ways to improve yourself, out-stand yourself, and become the best version of yourself.

When inspiration becomes competition

Now, in itself there seems to be nothing wrong with a little competition between people.

When for instance you see someone having a certain amount of success in whatever manor, it’s understandable that you try to use them as a model and become as good as they are.

That isn’t really competition, that is more modeling and being inspired by someone. Nothing to worry about.

But it becomes a bit of a different story, when you have a tendency to always wanting to win. When normal daily situations are triggering you to battle, to become sort of contestants in a race, where you want to be the winner.

When you are like that, when everything in your life becomes a competition between you and someone else, it’s maybe time for a little wake-up call.

And that’s what we’re about to give you.

Competition and self-worth

competition with yourselfYou see, when you are in competition, you are actually giving someone else more credit than yourself.

You may not see this, you may think it’s the other way around, that you think that you are better and can outdo the other. But no, you are in competition with yourself.

What you are doing, is you’re giving someone else a higher ranking than yourself, and by doing that you have to prove to yourself, that you are better than that.

You have to win, to prove yourself that you are worthy! Worthy of whatever you think is lacking.

It can be speed, it can be a certain goal, it can be something as simple as who gets to the toilet first.

When you make a competition of such small things, you usually have a lack of confidence in yourself, and are constantly looking for ways to prove yourself that you are worthy, that you are good enough, that you are valuable.

Why you are of value

If this is something you do, you have to realize that you don’t ever have to give any proof that you’re good enough or worthy, because the fact of you being alive, you being here in physical form, as the spiritual entity that you actually are, is already proof.

You wouldn’t be here if you weren’t worthy! You wouldn’t be here if you weren’t of immeasurable value for your life, your story, your world.

You are an asset to the world, to your community, to humanity, no matter how you’ve looked at yourself up until now.

So, it’s time that you begin to see yourself with eyes of truth, with eyes that see what is real and what isn’t.

Be playful, not competitive

play togetherThere is never a need for competition. Oh yes, of course, when you are playing games it can be fun, playful and entertaining. Please keep being playful and have loads of fun, and play together rather than against each other.

Just stop the urge to make a competition of everything, because you are good enough. Find your self-worth, discover or rather remember your truth, who you really are.

That you are Source, that you are a divine being, living a human experience.

Because, ask yourself, would God ever have to prove to themselves that they are worthy? That they are the best? There is no competition on that level, so the answer is simple: no, they wouldn’t.

And that is exactly what is true for you: you already are the best! There’s no competition that you could ever lose, even if you from your human point of view can’t always see it.

You are loved

Remember who you are, and start living your truth. As the divine, spiritual being that is you, living this masterful human experience.

Stop being so competitive, stop comparing yourself with others, it drags you into the density of lower vibrations. And that’s not where you want to be.

Do the things you love, with passion, with fun, with joy, no competition needed, and fall in love with who you are, just the way you are. You’re worth it!

We love you so much, dear human, so, so much! We are The Wisdom, and with that we are complete for today.

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