Welcome, welcome, dear human, on this beautiful new day. We are pleased to speak with you again and we’d like to have a word with you about harmony.
Harmony, it’s something many of you are looking for, but can’t seem to find it. There seems to be always some kind of hassle going on.
It might be in your house, that harmony is nowhere to be found. It can be in relationships with family members, colleagues, store employees, people you speak with on the phone… it can be in your contacts with anyone, that you feel that there’s a distinct lack of harmony.
What it is
What is harmony actually? It’s a condition where people are congruently together, where they are at peace, feeling comfortable in each other’s presence, where the overall atmosphere in a space, within a group, or even a town or country, is peaceful, content and happy.
Harmony is one of the most wished for feelings, after happiness. So many people feel that they need more harmony in their lives.
So how can you achieve that? What can you do to get more harmony in your contacts with other people, in the thoughts you think, in how you feel in your day to day life?
Where harmony begins
It’s not as hard as you might think. It’s actually pretty easy and it starts with self-love. As we’ve said often times before, self-love is one of the most essential things you have to have in order to feel peaceful and to experience harmony.
Harmony is a state of being that starts within.
If you are not in harmony with yourself, you will never find it outside of you. Which we’ve also explained many a time before, because there is no outside world, there is just you, and your feelings, thoughts and emotions.
So if you are way off, not feeling harmony inside of yourself, you will not experience it in the outside world.
So that is the main goal for you, to go inward, and find that inner peace, and the harmony that you’re looking for.
By training your thoughts to stop judging, and to begin accepting yourself in every way.
So, self-judgment is also something that you will have to let go of, then you’re on your way to create harmony.
What to do in conflicts?
When you sense that you’re in a conflict with someone else, about anything at all, then you have to go inward.
Don’t look at the other person, resist the urge to start blaming them for whatever it is you’re feeling or experiencing, and just look inside of you.
And hold your tongue, don’t respond the way you usually would do! Hold your tongue, stay silent, and all you do is say in your mind: “I love you”, and say it to yourself as well as to the other person.
Always be aware that the other person is a reflection of what is going on inside of you!
Just slow down, take a few deep breaths, be silent, and send love. Whatever is going on, you will experience that inside of you the calm returns.
It may need a little bit of practice the first few times, but as soon as you start to experience that peace and calm inside yourself when you don’t react, but instead retract and go inward, you’ll have it a lot easier the next time it happens.
You have the power to change your feelings
Staying out of judgment, looking at your own feelings, and detecting that you have the power to change how you feel in that instant, will help you create harmony inside yourself, and therefore outside yourself, because it will be reflected back to you through other people.
Don’t expect miracles from the get-go, but when you practice this, we promise you, that you will find more harmony in your day to day life, in your relationships and in any encounter with other people, anywhere you go.
We love you dear human, and we are supporting you always along the way.
We are The Wisdom, and with that we are complete.
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